Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Fine! We'll do it your way!

When feel I am wronged, my temptation is sometimes to become bitter. Isn't that what the "fine, if that is what you want, I will make sure I do it" response is? Implicit in that remark is I will behave myself, but in payment for my compliance I get to resent you for forcing me to agree to this.

It seems that to walk in a way that honors God, I need to be honest and straightforward with what I am thinking. If I get into the "fine, we'll do it your way so I can hate you" response, I am not honoring to God, to the person I am in conflict with AND I do not honor myself.

If I do go down that road, it can be very treacherous to my soul.

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