When I countered with the idea that maybe the student is sabotaging themselves, the person turned to me and said "Oh that's right, you are a psychology person, you don't believe in the devil."
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I thought about that statement. I do believe in the devil and his power. What I find interesting is that this isn't the first time the devil has been referenced by my poorly performing students. It appears that their body is the battleground between good and evil. And the devil wins when they don't get out of bed in the morning and get to class.
It is almost as if this student and others are afraid to exert their own power, that somehow it may be sinful to succeed. This student does not want to answer the question about what THEY can do about it, they want to blame someone else.
So what am I to do about this attack of Satan in the student's life? Lay my hand on their head and exorcise the demons? Will their performance go up?
That is an age old question...how much is under my control? If the Devil is keeping a person in bed, then Christianity and Freud were closer than either of them believed. The difference is that some Christians call that destructive force the Devil, Freudians call it Id.
3 comments:
I love this blog - well said. And yes, it is an age-old question. How much is it the 'Evil One' and how much is it lack of willpower and fear of responsibility?
"id" = i, devil
I think when we sabotage ourselves, it is the devil's work. He's great at making us feel inferior and unwanted and so forth. But we can change that. You can't necessarily control how you feel but you can control how you choose to react to it. You can have a pity party and say it's too much...or you can set your mind to overcome those feelings. Sure we all screw up and have our moments of feeling ookie and that's normal. But to say "The Devil made me do it" is a load of crap...unless you are under his spell or are a worshiper of his.
I don't know...I just think it's more of the person refusing to take responsibility for their actions.
But ask me this question again tomorrow and I might have a different answer. So who knows. :)
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